Control within the system

In life things have to end so that there can be a beginning. The system has control over everything; don't let them have control over you. We are in a world where money is all powerful. We have to care enough about ourselves so that the system won't have control over us. Remember that you have the power within you. This power is not to be given to anyone. When you believe and trust in yourself that is when you are where you need to be. You are not here to be cruel to others or to think that you are better or smarter than they. That is not what it is about; it is about knowing how to be humble. It is about caring, loving and helping others, but first you must know yourself to really understand what it means to be humble. Rome wasn't built in a day, Rome was built in time. We must give ourselves time; time is not our enemy, we are our own enemy.

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Reasons

 

Why is it that we refuse to give ourselves a reason for doing what we do? We do not justify our ways, we just go with it; never question it. Why give ourselves a reason? Is it better to live a lie?  Allowing us to see things for what we choose to see and not for what it really is.

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Single

How many regrets do we hold within? When we yell out we wonder what have we released and to whom? How it terrifies us; feeling our stomachs entangled inside of ourselves. All the rejection that we have ever gotten creates a world of insecurity, low self-esteem and self-doubt. We always try to find the answers in gatherings; trying to find that one person because we are afraid of being single. A man/woman consists of a circle. Each man/woman consists of a lot of things. Giving birth is just a factor. Each finger represents a character and that represents YOU.  The reason why YOU are in the palm is because YOU are in the middle. The middle means YOU are the power of that circle. When you start letting go of your circle YOU are letting YOURSELF go. In the Palm which is YOU consist of:

1. Power

2. Control

3. Independence

4. Compassion

5. Emotion

Emotion is last because our emotions are consumed with so many feelings. When we deal with emotions, we get consumed with our feelings and act out of impulse. We do not think with our heads instead we think with our bodies and make irrational decisions. You are in control within the circle, once you open your circle you are losing control. Do not leave it open. The only time the circle is open is when you lose control. Keep that circle closed. No matter what happens, YOU have to keep it together.

Relationship with Thyself

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Special Needs, Retardation, Learning Disabilities, and Handicap; what do these words really represent? These words were man-made as a form of division between those that are considered “normal” and those that are considered “special.” Children and even adults are put into a category so that they can be identified as to what group they belong to.

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Call Me If you are in a relationship in which you live with your partner; are you obligated to tell each other where you are?

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Most people feel as if we should be married or have a companionship in our lives to be whole. Unfortunately these preconceived thoughts come from the idea of being alone and the majority of us are afraid of being solo. I’m sorry to say that not everybody will end up with someone. There are people who will end up with no one because of many different reasons such as; some people are too controlling, selfish and self-centered.

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        Why is it that people say, “I will do you the favor, I’ll help you move, or I will get you whatever you need, etc. but when it comes down to it they don’t come through? How can you gain respect for these people? You can’t, because they are not people who are true to their words. Why is it so hard to say, “I can’t be there” or “I won’t be able to help you?” Everyone wants to feel important and everyone likes to feel they know a lot or that they are powerful people so they put themselves out there and are unable to complete the task. Why is that?

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       What is it that people have problems with when they hear the word gay? Why are they homophobic? Why do their parents put these children aside as if they don’t exist? I as a mother have always said if any of my children happen to be gay I’d still love them the same because I see them as my children. I don’t see “gay” as a sickness or a disease. Everyone in this word is born differently and that is what makes them special. Being gay should not be an exception. People say that being gay is not easy in this lifetime. Well, what the hell is easy in this lifetime? I believe as long as no one causes physical, mental, or sexual harm on another human being then that person has a right to be whoever he/she chooses to be. For anyone to tell them different it’s a mockery. What I’m against of in every race whether straight or gay is ignorance. There are people I don’t like but not because they’re gay. Whether they are gay or straight doesn’t matter to me some people are just pricks and those people I do not like. 

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Many men and woman commit adultery and they do it for different reasons that are not acceptable. Adultery is a form of running away from your problems instead of facing them. It is also a form of insecurity within the person that commits the act. Why do people commit adultery? Let’s find out.

 

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